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Have Fun Learning More About Your Partner with These 150 Relationship-Boosting Questions
Whether you've shared a decade or just a few months together, these questions are designed to uncover new facets of your partner you might’ve never previously known.
Posted 7/12/2024
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You might talk to your partner every day but do you really talk to them? Can you take out the garbage? Are you picking up the kids today or am I? What’s for dinner? All of these are using your voice, but you’re not doing the real communicating your relationship needs to blossom.
Just like a plant needs water to thrive, relationships need open and honest dialogue to flourish. Think about those moments when a simple conversation turned a bad day around or a heartfelt chat deepened your connection. These instances remind us that effective communication is more than just exchanging words; it's about actively listening, understanding, supporting, and growing with each other.
Asking these fun questions for couples is more than just a deep dive into your partner’s head, it’s also a way to practice your listening skills. Listening means quieting our inner voice to truly understand what the other person is saying. Talkspace therapist Elizabeth Keohan says, “How we express ourselves can reveal how much or how little we care, to the same degree as what is said, and if we are lazy about how we share, we run the risk of holding ourselves less accountable and less motivated to be open towards each other.”
You can ask these questions on a date night, a cozy night on the couch, or whenever suits you and your partner! If you want a sweet way to write down your answers, you can add them as captions or text pages in a Classic Photo Book filled with pictures of your relationship.
Don’t forget to focus on the good stuff! “Talking about what is wrong is easy, but what’s going well should be at the core of the discussion,” Keohan says. Along with asking these open ended questions, looking at photos together is a great way to strengthen your bond.
A study done by HP and Chatbooks found that out of nearly 16,000 families, 73% of adults say printed photos help them feel a stronger connection to their spouse. Looking at printed photos together sparks conversation, reminiscing, and can remind you of those qualities that made you pick your person in the first place.
Try out these relationship-boosting questions for couples on your next date night, car ride, or while looking at photos together.
- What’s the most life-changing experience you’ve had?
- What’s your favorite way to treat yourself?
- How do you envision our future together?
- What’s a dream you’ve had since childhood?
- How do you balance your dreams with practical responsibilities?
- How do you handle boredom?
- If you won a dream vacation, where would it be?
- What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever experienced?
- What do you think is the key to happiness?
- If you could have any super power, what would it be?
- What is your philosophy on money and wealth?
- What’s a lesson you’ve learned from a past mistake?
- How do you feel about aging and growing older?
- How do you handle stress and pressure?
- How do you celebrate your accomplishments?
- How do you stay emotionally balanced?
- What’s the most important quality in a partner?
- How do you practice mindfulness?
- How do you process and express your emotions?
- What’s your go-to mood booster?
- What’s your perspective on fate and free will?
- How do you find balance in life?
- How do you support others with their emotional well-being?
- How do you nurture your mental health?
- What’s a recent emotional breakthrough you’ve had?
- How do you handle emotional triggers?
- How do you handle jealousy or insecurity in a relationship?
- How do you stay motivated to grow and improve?
- What’s your favorite way to relax and unwind?
- How do you handle criticism?
- How do you handle change and uncertainty?
- How do you envision your life in 10 years?
- What’s the most important value your parents instilled in you?
- What’s a personal weakness you’re working to improve?
- How do you cope with difficult times as a child?
- How do you feel about surprises?
- How do you capture and preserve memories?
- How do you like to spend your free time?
- How do you reflect on past experiences?
- What’s the most valuable lesson you learned from your siblings?
- How do you feel about revisiting places from your past?
- How do you practice self-care?
- How do you stay motivated to achieve your dreams?
- How did your parents show love and affection?
- What’s a family story that always makes you smile?
- How do you prioritize your dreams and goals?
- How do you handle setbacks or failures in pursuing your goals?
- What’s your take on living in the moment?
- How do you find meaning in everyday life?
- How do you define success?
- What’s your favorite kind of adventure?
- How do you like to start your day?
- What’s a travel experience that impacted you deeply?
- What’s a childhood dream you’ve yet to accomplish?
- How do you define love?
- What’s something you’ve recently discovered about yourself?
- How do you want to be remembered?
- What role do you think I can play in helping you achieve your dreams?
- What’s a guilty pleasure you enjoy?
- How do you stay hopeful and optimistic?
- How do you define integrity?
- What’s a habit you’d like to develop?
- How do you want to support each other’s dreams and aspirations?
- How do you stay true to yourself in challenging situations?
- What’s a quirky habit you have?
- How did your parents influence your views on relationships?
- How did your family handle conflicts and disagreements?
- How did you cope with difficult times as a child?
- What’s a piece of advice you’d give to your younger self?
- How do you cultivate gratitude and appreciation?
- How did you handle conflicts growing up?
- What are your biggest dreams and goals?
- How do you stay grounded and present?
- How do you define a meaningful life?
- What’s a moment you’ll never forget?
- What’s the most important goal you’re currently working towards?
- How do you handle moral dilemmas?
- How do you express love and affection?
- How do you think couples should handle conflicts?
- How do you celebrate milestones and achievements?
- How do you define success?
- How do you like to end your day?
- How do you process and express your emotions?
- What’s the most challenging emotion for you to manage?
- How do you stay resilient during challenging times?
- How do you envision our future together?
- What’s a lesson you’ve learned from a difficult experience?
- How do you handle disappointment?
- How do you deal with feelings of sadness or depression?
- What’s a stress-relief technique you use regularly?
- What’s your favorite way to spend quality time together?
- What’s a piece of wisdom you live by?
- How do you support others with their emotional well-being?
- How did your parents influence your views on relationships?
- How do you handle emotional triggers?
- How did your parents show love and affection?
- How do you want to be remembered?
- How do you stay hopeful and optimistic?
- How do you stay connected to your roots and heritage?
- What’s a memory that always makes you laugh?
- How do you feel about open communication in relationships?
- What’s the most important quality in a partner?
- How do you express love and affection?
- What’s your idea of a perfect relationship?
- How do you handle conflicts in a relationship?
- How do you support each other during tough times?
- How do you handle boredom?
- How do you define integrity?
- How do you balance your dreams with practical responsibilities?
- How do you support each other’s dreams and aspirations?
- What’s a dream you’ve given up on and why?
- What’s a risk you’re willing to take to achieve your dreams?
- How do you celebrate your accomplishments?
- How do you prioritize your dreams and goals?
- How do you stay focused on your goals?
- What’s a lesson you’ve learned from a past mistake?
- How do you handle criticism?
- How do you stay resilient during challenging times?
- What’s something you’ve recently discovered about yourself?
- How do you practice self-care?
- What’s a fear you’re working to overcome?
- How do you stay grounded and present?
- What’s a habit you’d like to develop?
- How do you handle stress and pressure?
- What’s a strength you’re proud of?
- How do you stay motivated to grow and improve?
- What’s something you’ve changed your mind about recently?
- How do you stay true to your values?
- What’s a piece of advice you’d give to your younger self?
- How do you process and express your emotions?
- What’s the most challenging emotion for you to manage?
- How do you deal with feelings of sadness or depression?
- What’s a coping mechanism that works well for you?
- How do you practice mindfulness?
- What’s a happy memory that always makes you smile?
- How do you handle feelings of anger or frustration?
- What’s something that instantly lifts your mood?
- How do you stay emotionally balanced?
- What’s a stress-relief technique you use regularly?
- How do you nurture your mental health?
- What’s a recent emotional breakthrough you’ve had?
- How do you handle emotional triggers?
- What’s something that brings you peace and calm?
- How do you support others with their emotional well-being?
- What’s the most life-changing experience you’ve had?
- How do you remember and honor important events in your life?
- What’s a moment you’ll never forget?
- How do you capture and preserve memories?
- What’s a memory that always makes you laugh?
- How do you reflect on past experiences?
These are all great questions to ask your boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, partner, friend, or anyone you want to get closer to! Actively listening to the other person and truly understanding what they’re trying to say is at the core of a strong and healthy relationship. Do this exercise regularly to maintain a strong bond with one another.
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